Article by Nivedita Bhosale
Our lives are implicitly woven in relationships, dating back to our birth and many spiritual practitioners can relate, when I say that relationships exist even beyond the physical being. Establishing warmth and oneness in the many opportunities that are presented in our lives is something that we all seek. Every relationship is an energy, that we have chosen as part of soul contracts and those relationships present themselves when our soul is ‘ready’ – which means our energies are now in sync with that energy and feel drawn towards it emotionally, sexually, mentally, desirously to fulfill their(relationship)purpose.
Children are great relationship builders. They operate from the core consciousness which is love, acceptance, peace and giving. Hence you may find children are adaptable in changing environments. To explain how children adapt, I would like to give a small example. Due to certain situations, we have been moving our house yearly from one suburb to another, which meant choosing a new kinder for my son in a new suburb. He hit every new place with excitement, curiosity and hardly took a day or two to acquaint himself in his new kinder, make new relationships with his teachers, friends. Being a spiritual teacher, appreciating the effect one’s consciousness has on everything becomes seamless.
However, the challenge comes when as grown-ups we encounter unknown facets in relationships and find it hard to get along. Before I knew Reiki, I was skeptical how it heals something that is in between any two people. Practicing Reiki over a decade, I have been able to see the benefits of relationship healing in my own marriage, and for many other clients whose lives totally changed after healing so much so that they chose to be Reiki practitioners.
I will share a few teachings as applied to romantic relationships.
It starts with dating and draws further into romance, and deep commitment leading to marriage. We put our best foot forward and make every effort to keep the relationship lively. As relationships are living energy, we exchange energies and auras, see strengths and weakness in each other’s personality more clearly. Depending on our beliefs of what we think is right or wrong, we start judging each other. This causes the love to be suppressed. In any relationship, when the two beings are in tune with each other’s hearts, the energies flow freely bringing comfort and understanding between each other. If one of them is vibrating higher than the other, there happens to be congestion or stimulation of the heart chakra. In such case, the lower vibrating person may become hostile, and as a reaction the higher vibrating one becomes resentful. This is a vicious cycle due to clogged energies and heart chakras being out of sync. The relationship starts going through turbulence of power/fear/resentment.
As soon as this problem is identified, start healing by flushing out the negative, condensed energies by using Cho-Ku-Rei on each of the partner’s heart chakra and then place them together in a white light bubble and continue with Cho-Ku-Rei as guided. I use Sei-He-Ki along if guided to break the pile of still energy. Then use a powerful pink or green downlight over this white light bubble visualizing it is held by the healing Archangel or any ascended master who likes to step into the healing session at that time.
This meditation relieves the fragility in the relationship and brings feelings of togetherness, love, and care. Using Cho-Ku-Rei brings protection to the relationship from external energy-depleting sources, at the same time brings harmony between hearts thus making it easier to accept the relationship.
I personally found that Reiki carries this soothing aroma which keeps me addicted to using it for the wellness of my relationship. With this meditation and healing exercise, I developed feelings of compassion, love, faith, happiness, forgiveness and most important trust. The chain of unwanted negative thinking was turned into an act of acknowledgment and appreciation towards my partner. The awareness of thoughts about my relationship guided me to bless my relationship the most when I felt it was falling apart.
Relationships teach us how we can build our character, besides nurturing our emotional and mental well-being.
One more technique that I found helpful was objectifying things that bring memory about good things in my partner. These could be twin pendants, twin t-shirts, perfumes, crystals, your personal songs or music collection, or anything that you feel revives freshness in your relationship. I use these objects during my Reiki healing session which creates a point of reference for visualization and radiating positivity especially when conflicts arise. I have come to believe that relationships that leave us agitated are the ones we should give more energy (Reiki) as these are the ones that help us grow.
Another small thing I personally do is I seal the energy of me and my partner in a beautiful energy space, which is a unique, unaltered, blissful place in my heart. In this space, I call the Angels, ascended masters, divine energy, spirit guides to bless and protect us. This Divine sealing keeps our energies in sync throughout the day thus aligning our thoughts, feelings in the best interest of our marriage.
During the healing process, you will receive messages in any form, keep yourself open and journal them to discuss with your healer.
I believe that Reiki has given me, and many others hope paving a path of possibilities even in the dimness and ultimately brought love and light into our lives.
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Nivedita Bhosale is a graduate in Electronics and Telecommunication Engineering followed by Post Graduate Diploma in Advanced Computing. Serving 9 years in the Corporate sector, her strong inclination towards Reiki drove her to be a healer and a teacher. Born as an intuitive and gifted with deep compassion, she got enthralled with the divine gift of Reiki and would like to expand her experiences by nurturing Reiki in everyone’s lives. She is a Holistic healer, Independent Reiki Teacher, and a Traditional Usui Reiki Master-Teacher. You can reach her at firstname.lastname@example.org.