Article by Justine Melton
Reiki is amazing at healing any area of your life. Sometimes we must let things go in order for the Universe to bring us what we desire. When you enter the Reiki world you usually are searching for healing, cleansing, or grounding of some kind. At this time friendships are often changing and our old lives are starting to be left behind. After much work is done in our own life we notice that all of the fake friendships and those not to our highest good have ended. Sometimes new ones have naturally come in and sometimes it is up to us to go out and create new friendships.
Wanting likeminded friends is a natural and healthy thing. It gives you a group of people you can share stories with, relate to and share a sense of community with. Having people around you that can make you smile and lift your vibration is very positive. Of course not all friends have to have the same likes as you. Sometimes the best friendships form from people with very different lives. There are no rules on friendships as long as it is a healthy one filled with mutual respect.
How do we make space for these new friendships to come in? Can Reiki help?
It is a simple process to create space in your life for healthy friendships and of course Reiki is an amazing helper. Start by cleansing every area of your life. Clean your house, do a blessing/cleansing on it, clean your car, your office, etc. Make sure you clean out anything you are not using and is not for your greatest good. This includes mental hangups, contact lists, relationships, and anything big or small that is not for your greatest good. Make a list of the relationships in your life that make you happy. Keep those people around! Next, make a list of relationships in your life that make you unhappy for any reason at all. Can those relationships be improved? Is the other person willing to make changes with you to create a good relationship? Is it able to be healthy and something that is good for both of you? If not let it go. You have now shown the Universe that you are deserving of better and have provided a clean and cleansed space for it to come into.
Once you have cleaned house in all ways there is a Reiki Method I recommend for attracting likeminded and healthy friendships to you. It is very easy and will attract only what is in your greatest good.
Reiki Method For Attracting Healthy Friendships:
- Prepare your space as you normally would for a meditation or a self-Reiki session.
- Sit in your meditative space and make a large Cho Ku Rei or Master Symbol over yourself.
- Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths and state your intention for the session. This should be something about bringing healthy friendships into your life. For example, you could say, “I am so happy that likeminded people are flowing into my life. I am happy that healthy friendships are attracted to me like a magnet. I love people and they love me. I’m open to positive, healthy friendships.”
- Place your hands in front of you and beam Reiki to a spot in front of you. This spot should be a space where you see yourself having several healthy friendships. Just as if you are watching it on a tv in front of you. Continue in this space for 5-10min.
- Ground yourself by doing one large Cho Ku Rei in reverse. Give thanks. You are done!
Once you create the open space for healthy friendships to come in it should be very easy for you to attract the right kind of people. The hardest part is letting go of everything that doesn’t work for you. Once you do that and add a little Reiki in you will be a healthy friendship manifesting machine.
This method works and is so rewarding. Please don’t forget that people don’t have to be exactly like you to be a great friend. It is great to have friends with the same interests and those that like different things as well. Reiki works for the greatest good of all and will help bring in exactly what you need. You do not have to over think it. Relax and give it a try.
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Justine Melton is a Reiki Master/Teacher and an Intuitive Counselor. Reiki came into her life and changed it in amazing ways. It is her passion now to bring Reiki to others and help them to heal in a holistic way. Justine is lucky enough to be an Empath, Clairaudient, Clairsentient, and Clairvoyant. She is able to use these gifts with Reiki if asked to give extra messages during a session for the client’s highest good. You can follow Justine on her website SerenityOfTheMindAndSoul.com and on Facebook at Serenity of the Mind & Soul.