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Reiki for Love and Romance!

Article by Haripriya Suraj, Reiki Master

What do these two words bring up for you? Do they give you feelings of peace and warmth? Or do they bring up feelings of pain, betrayal or indifference?

A lot of people grow up with fairy tale notions of love and romance. This isn’t surprising because children are fed fairly tales and movies of Prince Charming and Princess Perfect from an early age. Many of them grow up believing that once they find their very own Prince Charming or Princess Perfect, their lives will continue happily ever after!

When these children grow into adults and get into romantic relationships, many of them land in bitter disappointment. They realise that romantic relationships are not set in the fairy land of their imagination, but in practical reality. Some of these people feel betrayed and give up on romantic love. They dismiss it as painful and not worth it. Others feel they don’t deserve it. Yet others become cynical and close all doors to it.

Dear Friends, romantic love is not about settling down with Prince Charming or Princess Perfect. It is not something that we look for so that life continues happily ever after. It is not something given to us by our partners. It is something we create. You have the power to create a romantic relationship that feels magical to you! Just don’t depend on external factors to bring you this magic.

The power is in your hands. The love is in your heart. And once power and love come together, magic happens!

Here’s how you can kick start your journey toward building the perfect romantic relationship or bring in more love and romance if you’re already in one (includes marriage).

1. Practise daily self healing with Reiki. This is the most important and simplest way to create the love you want. So many people are attuned to Reiki but not all practise daily self healing. Daily self healing helps your energies stay clean and clear. Reiki will help heal personal baggage that may be blocking your path to love. It will also help you let go of people and situations that no longer serve your highest good, so that new energies can come in. So, if you are stuck with a partner who cares little about love in the relationship, Reiki can help you let go of this relationship and to subsequently find one that is better suited to you.

2. Love yourself. Love yourself. Love yourself. There is no way you can attract great love or sustain it unless you love yourself first. When we don’t love ourselves enough, we subconsciously expect our partners to complete us. This is unhealthy for the relationship. In terms of energy, a lack of self love will attract partners who are also on the lookout for someone that can complete them. A relationship in which both partners depend on each other to feel complete will not sustain for long. And even if it does, the chemistry will fly out of the window once the courtship phase is over. So, start loving yourself. You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to love yourself as you are- flaws and everything. Be confident about who you are. This will help you attract a healthy romantic relationship.

3. Make a list of the things you wish to have in common with your romantic partner and give Reiki to it every day. Allow Reiki to bring you in contact with your ideal match. It is impossible (and probably boring) to find someone who is your match in every way. However, it makes sense to find someone whose interests, dreams and ambitions match yours, especially in the important aspects of everyday life. If you want children and your partner is not for it, it will not help the relationship. If you are academically oriented, you may fare better with someone who is also academically inclined than with a DJ or movie star! Or vice versa.

4. If you are already in a happy relationship or marriage, but wish to spice things up a bit, learn to look at your relationship with fresh eyes. Remember how exciting things were when you and your partner first met? Everything seemed perfect in spite of your minor differences. Why should those small differences become obstacles now? Accept your partner as he or she is. Celebrate your differences. Keep your focus on love. When you look at your partner or spouse, look from your heart chakra and not from your Ego. Feel the love pouring out of your heart chakra and embracing this person exactly as he or she is. This is powerful and ensures the free flow of love in the relationship.

Know that you deserve to be in a soulful romantic relationship. Romantic love is not all about betrayal and pain. Contrary to popular belief, romantic love does not diminish with time. If you take responsibility for your romantic life, you can create magic. You can enjoy love and romance all through your life and watch it grow stronger with every year that you spend with your beloved.

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Haripriya Suraj
Haripriya Suraj

Haripriya Suraj is a Reiki Master, Angel Healer and Starseed Lightworker. Reiki is her constant companion from which she derives peace and contentment. She is deeply connected with the Stars and Angels and they form an integral part of her Reiki practice. Her core mission is to help bridge the worlds of Spirit and Science and to help Lightworkers connect with their unique soul missions. Haripriya offers Personalised Starseed Transmissions, apart from workshops in Reiki and Angel Healing. She resides in Bangalore, India. Reach Haripriya at lightworkersonearth.com, empoweredmedicine-hospitaldiaries.com on email at angelhealingbangalore@gmail.com and on Facebook at Angel Light.

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  • Kaneez December 2, 2014, 6:25 pm

    My one of the son did not expect my reiki energy he is suffering lot off problem he literally hate me they thought I am doing Blake magic .what I have to do now keep doing it. Or I should quit.plase answer me .My husband also didn’t expect my reiki energy.I know I love them you thing I have to send distend reiki to get read there hate.

  • annie December 5, 2014, 5:55 am

    Whenever i start doing reiki i feel good but very next day i get into some disputes with my family members ..i dont know ho wto get rid of this problem .This has happnd many times and then i leave gaps everything is ok but when i start again problem starts

  • Vinita January 5, 2015, 5:35 am

    Kaneez I m answering ur question for I want to help u. Pls stop giving reiki and start sending ur love to your son through his photo. Reiki must be given through one’s permission n not otherwise. And pls don’t feel bad about ur bad relationship with him. It is karma from your past lives and only ur love can overcome it. All the best. 🙂

  • Vinita January 5, 2015, 5:38 am

    Annie u can try giving reiki to ur family while meditating and send ur love to them. It should help.

  • Haripriya January 11, 2015, 6:29 am

    Thank you Vinita for your useful suggestions 🙂

    Kaneez,- You could also work one on one with a healer in your city. Sometimes, there will be layers to an issue and it may need to be worked on one step at a time. So, it may help if you could receive guidance as you heal.

    Annie- Reiki tends to bring up issues that need healing. If what you have explained has become a pattern, it means there is something that needs healing. Please work one on one with a healer to receive effective guidance.

    Many Blessings

  • sara January 24, 2015, 3:33 pm

    u didnt tell us the way how we practice reiky

    • rose galbraith March 14, 2015, 12:27 pm

      If you have not been taught how to Reiki yourself every day as past of your attunement you may need to learn again.. This should be part of your journey and something you make time for In order to be healed yourself before you can pass energy to others…. Luck and love to you x

  • Cathy January 26, 2015, 5:32 pm

    Thank you for the beautiful article…many blessings to you!

  • Antoinette August 19, 2015, 6:15 pm

    This is a great article!

    I am wondering if you offer classes, particularly the Angel Card class online ?

  • reikidoc September 17, 2015, 1:19 am

    Nicely written article on a real life problem. Addresses all those who create their picture perfect make believe world and seek love somewhere else !

  • Vara September 26, 2015, 4:16 pm

    How to get back love and caring of couples in married life.

  • diana balgaard May 27, 2017, 2:24 pm

    thank you

  • ybhatia August 9, 2017, 7:10 am

    i have religion disputes in marriage i want to marry a muslim his family is ready my mother is also ready bt my father will never accept him at any cost.. can reiki help??

  • Ambika September 20, 2017, 10:23 am

    Can REKI given to other person fore their love and for marriage.lf yes guide me,how to give or heal him or her for this.

  • Carolina January 11, 2018, 6:50 am

    I love this article so much.. I m a reiki master. I have to say that thanks so much to reiki. My life have change so much after being using reiki. I would like to take angel reiki if you offer that online..

    Thanks again..

  • Carolina January 11, 2018, 6:52 am

    Can I talk to you on Skype??

  • SNEHAL THAKUR June 20, 2018, 5:56 am

    Hi…i am in Love with a guy…Both of us had a very bad relationship experience in the past..Im lucky enuf that i decided to learn Reiki and i healed myself…but that guy whom i love is still burdened with lots of negativity of the past…he fears to enter relationship…
    Please advice how can i use reiki to heal him and create love within his heart for me..(he says he likes me).. I want to marry him and him to love me unconditionally…


  • gyo May 26, 2019, 9:50 am

    thank you for this great article, I have a description of my vision about a man who I’d like to meet, befor I know Reiki, so now I will refresh my list and let Reiki to flow in 😊🤗😘

  • Veronica June 12, 2019, 11:28 pm

    I am in a relationship for 2 years……and my partner started from some time to be very ….cold. no more kiss like before, no more hugs, we communicate easy but us something missing!

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