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Soul Mate Reiki

Article by Reiki Master Sunetra Dasgupta

Most of us are waiting or searching for that “special someone“  to walk our divine path with. We call them soul mates. But, in reality we have many potential soul mates. They are people towards whom we feel a great affinity.  In fact our parents, siblings, children, friends, teachers etc.  are all our soul mates. And yet for some of us a soul mate is that one person whom we see as a romantic partner.

Soul Mate Reiki does not depend on us believing any specific philosophy regarding soul mates.  It’s up to us how we want to channel the symbol. We can channel the symbol to attract our “The one” romantic connection or just friends with whom we share a very deep bond. Since there is a great interest in soul mate as a romantic life partner SMR (Soul Mate Reiki) is can be used to bring our partner in our lives.

The Soul Mate symbol and ways to use it:


1) Activate the Distance Symbol and draw the SMR symbol on your palms, heart and emotion chakras and chant “SMR” 3 times giving Reiki to these Chakras. You can use it with any other symbol you know. (Let your Intuition guide you!)

Affirmation is very important. You can say:

“I am now ready to receive my soul mate with divine love and wisdom.” or “Thank You, Reiki, for giving me my soul mate with divine love and wisdom.” Or any such statement which appeals to you.

2) In case you want to use it for any particular person, you need that persons and your photo. Draw the SMR symbol in the center between the 2 photos and also on each of the photos to activate.

The Pictorial Representation is given below:


On the other side of the paper the Power Symbol, Emotional Healing Symbol, Distance Healing Symbol, Master Symbol (Optional) can be drawn. Channel Reiki into it for 20 minutes every day.

3) Another powerful way to use this symbol is to connect with your higher self. Sit quietly and do deep breathing. Activate HSZSN and SMR; say: “I ask my Higher Self to help me to connect with my Soul Mate”. When you feel heat on your palms, keep your hand on the Heart Chakra.

For those of us who do not know who our soul mate is, our higher self-connects to the higher self of our soul mate and they may feel some vibrations or guidance from their higher self on how to find us.

Sunetra Dasgupta

A lecturer by profession, teaching undergraduate students Mathematics, Statistics, Research Methodology and Business Communication, Sunetra Dasgupta is also Reiki Teacher & Healer. She strongly believes that Reiki came to her rescue in difficult phases of life, helping her to cope and transform. Sunetra is currently affiliated to Alohahappiness - an MNC specializing in various healing services, remedial products, Vaastu, Numerology, Astrology and Past Life Regression to name a few. At Alohahappiness, she is an active Guide, Healer and Teacher regularly taking up cases for healing and courses for teaching. She has channelled Gajanan Vinayak Reiki, and heals with and teaches Traditional (Usui) Reiki, Karmic Reiki, Karuna Reiki®, Soulmate Reiki, Fusion Reiki, Wagle Reiki, Angel Reiki, Tiger Reiki, Lavender Flame Reiki, 30 more types of Reiki, Magnified Healing, DLA, Akashic Records, Access Consciousness, Aura Brushing, Cord Removal, Hypnotherapy, Past Life Regression, EFT, Psychic Surgery, Angel and Tarot Card Reading, Runes, Tasseography, Violet Flame, Herbs and Oils, Candle Magick, Signature Analysis, Vastu, Numerology, Feng Shui, Bach Flower, I Ching, Fairy Ring, LOA, Diceology, Lithomancy, Hydromancy. She is also an Angel whisperer. She has also written a book “Lessons I learned from Reiki” which can be bought from Pothi.com.
She lives in India and can be contacted via Alohahappiness official page facebook.com/alohahappiness or Instagram handle @alohappinessbykayshetty. Her personal Pages are facebook.com/Sonieledanielhealingmiracle, and Instagram handle @sonieledanielhealingmiracle.


{ 57 comments… add one }
  • Soma July 17, 2013, 12:15 pm

    True…I have experienced it

    • Emma July 17, 2013, 1:25 pm

      Soma, do you live in California?!

      • Soma July 20, 2014, 2:14 am

        In india

  • Treena July 17, 2013, 4:02 pm

    Can you please clarify what the emotions chakras are?

  • ananya (@ananya84329627) July 17, 2013, 4:48 pm

    Emotion chakra is the sacral chakra…2 inches below the navel..it is associated with sex, intimacy & bonding with the opp sex

  • parul July 17, 2013, 7:55 pm

    very interesting…
    thanks for sharing this technique…
    can it be used to help other people find their soulmates?
    has it helped you find your soulmate?
    would love to hear your experience.

  • Michelle Cox July 17, 2013, 8:25 pm

    What is the correct way to draw the emotion symbol?

  • Beverly Medland July 20, 2013, 4:02 pm

    There is no wrong way… Namaste~ Earth Angel.

  • Shalini August 13, 2013, 9:36 am

    Hi Sunetra, this is a pretty interesing article. Can level 2 reiki use this symbol? is there any attunement needed to use SMR symbol?

    • Sunetra September 27, 2013, 2:09 am

      Dear Shalini,
      This symbol can be only used by people who have done Reiki 2 or above. Yes one needs to be attuned to this symbol.

  • Madhur September 27, 2013, 8:23 pm

    can we self attune if we did only 2nd level?

    • Sunetra January 1, 2014, 9:03 am

      No one needs to be a Reiki Teacher to attune someone.

  • SM March 20, 2014, 8:21 am

    Hi sunetra,I am a new reiki practioner.Just completed my 3 degree course.Can i use SMR symbol.

    Thanx and regards

    • Sunetra July 19, 2014, 12:34 pm

      You can attune yourself provided you are a Reiki Master Teacher

  • Bernadette May 10, 2014, 2:47 pm

    How do we become attuned to this symbol? I am level 2. I don’t understand how you can self attune to a symbol. Do you have more details? Thank you.

    • Sunetra July 19, 2014, 12:37 pm

      One can attune themselves to a symbol who is a Reiki Master Teacher. If you are not approach a Reiki Master Teacher for attunement.

  • Ashwini May 10, 2014, 5:59 pm

    Hi Sunetra,
    Another beautiful article.
    I am a fan of your writing.You are making reiki really simple and your explainations are great
    Thank you so much for sharing

  • Richard June 19, 2014, 4:26 pm

    I’m a reiki practitioner in Scotland. Currently at level two and aiming to do a master level soon. How does one become attuned to this symbol? I understand that a reiki master/ teacher can do attunements but what if the teacher hasn’t been attuned to this symbol?


    • Sunetra July 19, 2014, 12:33 pm


      If the teacher is not attuned to the symbol they can still attune someone to the symbol.

  • kan July 19, 2014, 9:27 am

    Hi how can I use this symbol on my client who is in love with a boy, having some disturbances with his parents.

  • barb July 19, 2014, 12:32 pm

    This is a fab article but i dont understand the attunement process..why is there no clear answer to the questions posted. At Reiki level 2 we are never given the option of this symbol

  • Eimear July 19, 2014, 1:03 pm

    I have level 3 reiki completed and seichim 1&2, I’m just unsure how I would attune myself ? Hari om

  • Shawn July 19, 2014, 2:12 pm

    Step by Step Guide 🙂 Awesome, thank you for sharing this interesting symbol and offering a step by step guide on how to use it. 🙂

  • monica September 8, 2014, 11:46 pm

    I am a bit puzzled about the “use on someone specific”. I doubt that we can, and that we should, decide by ourselves who should be our soulmate… And I also doubt that we should use Reiki to make things happen between us and another person. This does not respect the free will of the other person, but is a manipulation.

    • Sunetra October 15, 2014, 2:50 am

      Hi Monica,
      Even if we use it on someone specific, Reiki will only bring that person in our life if he/she is good for us. Reiki is a smart energy and works for the greatest good.

  • samridhi September 9, 2014, 1:13 am

    How does one draw this symbol…. given get fit reiki symbols one has to follow a certain direction.

  • manpreet September 11, 2014, 11:02 am

    This just can be used for finding soulmate… ?? What is required to create love with your partner..

    • Sunetra October 15, 2014, 2:48 am

      This symbol can be used to find a soulmate and create love for your partner

  • Vicky Dafonseca October 10, 2014, 1:35 am

    Hi, can you help me with my intimacey/sexual issues? I only have my reike one.

    Thank you

    • Sunetra October 15, 2014, 2:45 am

      Hi Vicky,
      Give a lot of healing to your Heart,Solar,Sacral and root chakra

  • Priyanka October 22, 2014, 6:05 pm

    does dis smr work for marraige?

    • Sunetra November 11, 2014, 4:27 pm

      It does 🙂

  • Shereen November 11, 2014, 9:12 am

    At what level do you need to be attuned to use the Soulmate symbol

    • Sunetra November 11, 2014, 4:28 pm

      At least level 2

  • Karen November 29, 2014, 9:38 pm

    As a Reiki Teacher can I attune myself to this symbol ?

  • aish December 10, 2014, 6:06 pm

    i am attuned to level 3A..can i self attune myself to SMR symbol?
    thank you in advance.

  • Elaine Evans December 13, 2014, 5:46 pm

    I do not mean to offend anyone but as a Reiki Master Teacher may I say that as this is not a Reiki Symbol given in an attunement that it would be open to anyone who wishes to use it. Draw the symbol, sit with it in meditation and see what impressions come to you. I have used a non-reiki symbol since my second attunement, it resonated with me, so I tried it out. When used with loving intention any symbol can be used. I understand that Traditional practitioners may disagree with me and that is their perogative. Love and Light x

    • jo December 15, 2014, 4:12 am

      Thank you for this. I’m a Master Practitioner but I’m not attuned to teach. I share your opinion that meditating on it will help you with being able to use it 🙂 I could really use the help this symbol gives with my soulsoul mate.

  • Dees January 18, 2015, 1:26 pm

    Question. I found my soulmate but my cousin not. He lives on the other side of the world. Can you do this for him on distance? And how should I do this the best? He wants a soulmate to but he gave up. And I want to help.

  • Spirit June 12, 2015, 1:14 pm

    I firmly know I do me know, that it is an invasion of anyone spiritual space to put up a picture and request that that person be your mate. The only one you can invade is yourself. The only one that can bring you to your completeness is yourself. You are your world and out of this you can share it with others. This is not a true Reiki symbol. Trust your inner guide to bring to you what is part of your journey. You stand here at this time as a true representative of the Universal Source Energy that is of and in all things above and below. So never doubt you truth and connection to all of the all. Have an awesome now with yourself and allow yourself the true blessing necessary for your journey.

  • vrushali July 26, 2015, 2:54 pm

    Dear sunetra wonderful article as usally yours but how can we did for sombody else .who is looking for partner

    • BEENA GEORGE February 3, 2019, 8:03 pm

      Vrushali, I happened to see your comment while scrolling down to post the same doubt. Waiting for guidance. Love & light, Beena.

  • ramandeep July 29, 2015, 6:42 pm

    hii m in realinship from last two yesrs .. n m also reiki healer of level 2 … can i use this SMR symobol

  • snow August 2, 2015, 4:54 pm

    Hi sunetra
    I am a 2nd level practitioner. I want to get the attunement for this symbol. Can you do this for me. I need to get back my soulmate

  • Divya sharma August 6, 2015, 8:46 am

    Hi sunetra,
    I am highly grateful to u & thank u so much for sharing such a beautiful knowledge with us.. I am a rekei master

  • R August 7, 2015, 5:14 pm

    what is an smr? I sorry, I am a reiki master but I have never heard of smr.

    can you please tell me what it is

    I only know 4 symbols

    • BEENA GEORGE February 3, 2019, 8:04 pm

      Same here.

  • R August 7, 2015, 5:14 pm

    what is an smr? I’m sorry, I am a reiki master but I have never heard of smr.

    can you please tell me what it is

    I only know 4 symbols. Thank you for your time.

  • Dinesh Sharma August 25, 2015, 7:14 am

    Hello ,Sunetra I am Dinesh and I have Got level 1 and 2 about 2 years back but I never got to use or practice it ,I want to know whether after taking attunement if we are not using it can it goes against us as I am health wise down since 2 years and how to re ignite it or need not ,I have been learning so many healing therapies like Bach flower,Chakra cleaning but I am getting frustrated as I do want to be healthy and fit myself first,Being in pain yourself and trying to heal others will not be wise even my own family wont believe me,I think I have amassed lot of unused energy as I am doing chantings,mantras,Bhajans from Childhood,Kindly suggest me away or method to come out of this mindset and be useful for self and others,Thanks !

  • Sanjib nanda March 7, 2016, 7:05 am

    Hello Sunetra I am sanjib i have 2nd degree reiki from 3 yearsback but i have not enough practices. recently I have started practices reguraly. i want to use SMR for my girl friend . beacuse we have faced some issue from last few month. so please tell me what can i do and how can i will use SMR


  • Honey March 22, 2016, 2:06 pm

    Hi dear
    I am reiki master,and i have questions about this
    1)as i am not attuned by this symbol,how can i use it?bcaz if you are not attuned with that,its totally useless and without any effects.
    2)how can i attune myself with this symbol?bcaz i really dont know!
    3) as every symbol has its correct way to be drawn,whats the order???

  • Parth May 20, 2016, 11:26 am

    If our love ones going far from us and dnt want to cme back can we use it ??

  • grace August 16, 2017, 3:14 am

    does soulmate symbol needs proper way of drawing it and attunement??

  • Rateesh deo February 7, 2019, 7:02 pm

    What is the correct way to draw the SMR?

  • Sat Parkash April 19, 2020, 5:54 pm

    Hi dear,
    Can this symbol be used to increase love between husband and wife.

  • Neel June 21, 2020, 6:59 am

    Hello maam
    I am new in reiki practice and i practice it daily… i was searching for soulmate reiki from last few days and with the grace of god was able to find this article which contain complete and precise knowledge.. i have one query can i use soulmate reiki symbol and photos digitally i mean i have photo of that particular person i want to be with but i have only softcopy…. can i draw symbol with the help of phn or laptop and copy mine and his photo and give healing , as i know intentions are more important in reiki and reiki will help me and guide me only if i want life long happy relationship with that person reiki will not guide in case i have selfish feelings,,,,, i think reiki is guiding me its only than i was able to search abt soulmate reiki….plz reply maam.

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