Everyone has to go through the phase of losing their loving parents. And I’m not an exception. In the early beginning of the year 2016, my father left his body on 11th January. Last year on his birthday (22nd November 2015), when I called home to talk to him, the very first thought came to my mind was “This is the last time I’m going to wish him for his birthday.” I tried to deny that message from my higher self because it’s natural for a daughter to be emotionally attached to her father and being scared when she receives such a message from her inner voice. But that message was true although he was doing ok in the month of November! He was diabetic and due to kidneys malfunctioning he had to leave his body or we can say kidneys malfunctioning was the reason chosen by nature to make him leave this three dimensional world and enter into higher realms where journey of a soul is easier. Since then I’m receiving messages from his well-being from him. Also, he is the only one to gave me insight to write this article and help fellow souls. The news of this loss left me numb for a while. Of course, that was the most difficult moment for me and I closed my eyes. In the blink of an eye, I heard his voice calling my name “Meenu” (He used to call me with this name at home. Both my names “Meenu” and “Ashima” were given to me by him ☺) and I replied, “Yes, Papa!!” Sorry, I’m going to use few Punjabi words because I want to share the exact conversation I had with him. I’ll translate it for you.
He said, “Don’t worry Putt, I’m happier here.” (word “Putt” is used to address a daughter/son/child in Punjabi language)
He smiled and said, ”Tenu ta pehla to he pata hai ke me ethe khush aa fer tu kyo fikar kardi hain?? Tu he taa sabh nu sambhaalna hai te meri jimmewari saambhni hai. Dekh, hun me tera sohra ghar v dekh leya hai kyonky hun me aazaad aa te kite v aa jaa sakda haa. Tu jithe v reh khush reh putt. Asi fer milaange jdo tera v hisaab kitaab khatam ho jaawega.”
This means:
He smiled and said, “Why do you worry about me, my child? As you are already aware of my well-being in this spirit world here. Now, it’s your responsibility to support the family on behalf of mine and help them get over this. See, now I have visited your in-laws home as well because now I’m a free soul who can travel anywhere with no barriers. Stay happy, my child. See you again in this spirit world on completion of your earth journey!”
I smiled and said, “Yes, Papa! I know you are doing very well and happier than ever. Stay happy. Good luck on your future journey!”
And with this last reply of mine, the conversation ended. The loss of a parent is hard to get over but he healed me within half an hour after I came to know about his leaving this earthly world. That conversation turned me into a stronger daughter and put a smile on my lips. After this, he constantly remained in my prayers and I decided to send him Reiki to ease his future journey. Obviously, every soul has its own karmic account to be balanced and according to that it goes to the suitable realm after leaving their bodies. We can’t help them in facing their karma because everyone has to reap what they have sown. But we, being light workers, can help them by sending Reiki on their path so they don’t face much difficulty. You can also do the same in the following way.
- At first, ground yourself.
- Request God, your spiritual guides, angels, archangels and holy spirits to join you in the process.
- Then connect with the soul by HSZSN and Master symbol. You will sense the connection automatically once connected. Don’t stop even if you don’t feel so.
- Start sending him Reiki intuitively.
- Request Archangel Michael to protect him from evil spirits out there.
- Request his guardian angels, spiritual guides, all the angels and holy spirits around you to help him on his way and guide him the best way to enlightenment.
- Pray for him to God for his peaceful journey ahead!
So this is how I tried to help him because this is all I could do for him. You can also do the same even if you are not a Reiki channel. Simply pray and send them positive vibes in place of sending Reiki. Connect to them mentally and request to angels, archangels and spiritual guides in the same way. Because it’s the energy that works and prayer is a very powerful and healing energy. Good luck and tranquilize the departed souls! Namaste.
Article by Ashima Gautam
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Ashima Gautam is a Usui Reiki Master/Teacher. She is also practicing Karmic Reiki, Kundalini Reiki, Angel Reiki, Money & Abundance Reiki, Aura Brushing, Dowsing, Cord Cutting, Chakra Healing and Crystal Healing. Ashima has been practicing Reiki since 2007. Reiki is her passion. She is also a clairvoyant Tarot cards reader, an Angel whisperer and she reads Angel cards too. She has done M.sc in Mathematics and B.ed from India. Right now Ashima is living in Vancouver, British Columbia with her family and writing articles for newspapers. She loves reading, writing, art & crafts, singing, cooking and studying. Reach Ashima at [email protected], at Divine Light Reiki & Crystals on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/divinelightreiki43, on Twitter at https://twitter.com/Ashima_Gautam and on her blog here: https://soulmindandheart.wordpress.com/.
Thanks for this article Ashima..
Mere father di vi recently death hoi ae..1st March nu..
I too intuitively followed almost the same procedure, and felt peaceful. .
We can be 100% assured that people who lead such blameless, inspiring lives, are guaranteed a place in heaven, and they continue to watch over us..
Bless you and your family.
Anupama.
I’m so sorry for your loss Anupama ji. But everyone has to leave the body once karma is balanced. Be assured that he is happier than ever. Because he is worry-less and enjoying his spiritual ride. And yes, they’ll be there as you said.
God bless!
Ashima
Thank u Ashima. Actually I was in search of such guidance to easy the future journey who left in 2003. Actually I keep receiving her messages in some or other manner as she misses her children. I think I have got the right answer and it will help her to proceed with her future journey with a peace of mind.
Blessings to you and the departed soul as well. Namaste!
Thank you for sharing your experience!
Hi,
So sorry to hear if your loss, I too lost my father in January 2016. I am still really struggling to let go as he suffered so badly in his last few days.
I am a reiki 2 practioner and I will definitely start sending him reiki
Thank you xx