Article by Reiki Master Sunetra Dasgupta
It used to be always said that there is no difference between boys and girls, everyone is the same. Was it really being followed? Pink for girls and blue for boys, boys don’t cry and good girls are shy! Some general and ridiculous terms we have always come across, from either family or society.
What our parents have failed to understand when we were born and is slowly understood by parents today, is that there actually is no difference between boys and girls. From the age of 0 to 7, we pick up all the feminine qualities from our mother or the lady who is present closest in absence of mother: nurturing, caring, empathy etc. From the age of 8 to 14 all the masculine qualities from our father or the man who is present closest in absence of father: dominance, shrewdness etc. Thus all the male and female qualities are present in each of us, and the qualities sometimes get dominant over the other. There is no comparison between males and females, we are Yin and Yang to each other, we don’t need each other to validate self, but to grow and make the world a better place.
Why the need for conscious parenting?
When we try to enforce our mindset, hopes, and ideas on our children, more often than not it affects them adversely. To add to it the environmental factors also play an important role in shaping a person’s personality and emotional outlook.
When our relationship with our mother or the most important lady in our life is strained while growing up, we face issues in all relationships in our lives, especially in romantic relationships and it is generally seen that the strains we faced in the relationship with the lady in our life, often spills to other relationships too.
When our relationship with our father or the most important man in our life is strained while growing up, we face issues in our career and financial issues in our life, its also seen that there is a huge stability issue at work, and there is a lot of struggle to stick to one job or to have sufficient cash in hand for day to day expenses.
It is seen that in the last decade people have been more polarized than everyone has been in history. The emotional quotient is falling down to zero, and people have a hard time to forgive.
First and foremost thing a person needs to do is, start forgiving. Start with self, when we start to forgive and heal ourselves, we are also healing our inner masculine and feminine. There is a strong need to forgive our mothers, grandmothers and all the woman in our lives across space life and dimension, it will heal a lot of woman around the world, and the ecological conditions will improve and the vibration of nurturing people and nature will also improve, thus improving the quality of life, by improving nature.
When we forgive our fathers, grandfathers and all the men in our lives across space life and dimension, it will heal a lot of men around the world, and the economy of the country will improve, thus improving the quality of life economy wise.
How to heal?
There are various methods by which you can heal oneself. One of the methods can be womb meditation and the other method can be simply healing self and others using the emotional symbol or Harth. One may heal using a chi ball or even Reiki box. It doesn’t matter which method you use or how long you heal, till the time you are healing consistently.
What changes shall be noticed?
- Relationships shall be better
- Career and finances will improve
- Our left side of the body is linked to our feminine energies and all the females in our lives and right side to our masculine energies and all the males in our lives, thus we will see an overall improvement in our health.
- Overall improvement in our environment, surroundings both with mother nature as well as economic conditions.
- We release a lot of Karma.
Even if anything above does not matter to you, do it for your sanity and mental peace.
May the force of love and light be with you.
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A lecturer by profession, teaching undergraduate students Mathematics, Statistics, Research Methodology and Business Communication, Sunetra Dasgupta is also Reiki Teacher & Healer. She strongly believes that Reiki came to her rescue in difficult phases of life, helping her to cope and transform. Sunetra is currently affiliated to Alohahappiness - an MNC specializing in various healing services, remedial products, Vaastu, Numerology, Astrology and Past Life Regression to name a few. At Alohahappiness, she is an active Guide, Healer and Teacher regularly taking up cases for healing and courses for teaching. She has channelled Gajanan Vinayak Reiki, and heals with and teaches Traditional (Usui) Reiki, Karmic Reiki, Karuna Reiki®, Soulmate Reiki, Fusion Reiki, Wagle Reiki, Angel Reiki, Tiger Reiki, Lavender Flame Reiki, 30 more types of Reiki, Magnified Healing, DLA, Akashic Records, Access Consciousness, Aura Brushing, Cord Removal, Hypnotherapy, Past Life Regression, EFT, Psychic Surgery, Angel and Tarot Card Reading, Runes, Tasseography, Violet Flame, Herbs and Oils, Candle Magick, Signature Analysis, Vastu, Numerology, Feng Shui, Bach Flower, I Ching, Fairy Ring, LOA, Diceology, Lithomancy, Hydromancy. She is also an Angel whisperer. She has also written a book “Lessons I learned from Reiki” which can be bought from Pothi.com.
She lives in India and can be contacted via Alohahappiness official page facebook.com/alohahappiness or Instagram handle @alohappinessbykayshetty. Her personal Pages are facebook.com/Sonieledanielhealingmiracle, and Instagram handle @sonieledanielhealingmiracle.