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Sati Grid

Article by Reiki Master Sunetra Dasgupta

In Hindu Mythology Sati was a woman who immolated or burnt herself as her father had insulted her husband. Her husband was none other than Lord Shiva of the Hindu pantheon! She loved her husband unconditionally and so did he, and after her death her husband lost his mind and started destroying the world, so much was their love for each other. In earlier days, a woman’s devotion was compared to Sati’s.

Hence the name of the grid which makes your relationship with your spouse everlasting, better and harmonious is called the Sati Grid. The Sati Grid was developed by the Reiki Healing foundation. It was for uniting two love filled energies together, forever.

This Grid can be used only by a Reiki Master as it consists of the Master symbol. If you are a Reiki level 1 or 2 practitioner, take help of a Reiki Master.

Before setting up the grid, few things should be remembered and I am listing them as follows

1. One should keep in mind that the size of the grid should be 10”X10”, and not less than that. You make take a 12 inches or 15 inches grid also.

2. Check the auras of the people who you are intending to unite. It’s very important that the auras should be checked, as two people meant to be together in a relationship have very similar auras. There is no hard and fast of knowing this. You should have a sense of intuition or allow the divine to guide you.

3. The Grid should not be disturbed for 21 days, during which continue sending Reiki. You can also cover the grid mentally with a pyramid shield to prevent third party interference.

The Reiki Grid requires two Rose Quartz pyramid crystals which are to be put on the heart chakras of the photographs. Rose Quartz is used for love and heals the heart chakra. It is said to unite the power of two energies.

Apart from that you would also require four clear quarts or rose quartz crystals which are in pencil shape. Place them at the four corners of the grid looking inward. This signifies that the crystals will absorb negative energies from east west north and south or all four directions.

You would also require the photographs of the two people who you would like to unite.

Below is the Image of the Sati Grid.

Sati Grid

Sati Grid, by Sunetra Dasgupta

If you are setting up the Reiki Grid, remember to charge it every day with the intention “These two lovers or energies are happily united together forever” or if you are doing it for yourself, please state the intention “I and my Soul Mate / Twin Flame are happily united together forever.” For 21 days continue to send normal healing or distance healing to your grid and watch the wonders!

The grid works well and with Reiki our intention amplifies, so the grid can actually start creating changes in the lives of the lovers who are to unite! This would mean removing obstacles out of their way so that they can find each other.

This Grid has worked beautifully for each and every person who has used and I am sure, it would work for people who will use it too, all it asks you to do is have a little faith and a positive outlook.

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Sunetra Dasgupta

A lecturer by profession, teaching undergraduate students Mathematics, Statistics, Research Methodology and Business Communication, Sunetra Dasgupta is also Reiki Teacher & Healer. She strongly believes that Reiki came to her rescue in difficult phases of life, helping her to cope and transform. Sunetra is currently affiliated to Alohahappiness - an MNC specializing in various healing services, remedial products, Vaastu, Numerology, Astrology and Past Life Regression to name a few. At Alohahappiness, she is an active Guide, Healer and Teacher regularly taking up cases for healing and courses for teaching. She has channelled Gajanan Vinayak Reiki, and heals with and teaches Traditional (Usui) Reiki, Karmic Reiki, Karuna Reiki®, Soulmate Reiki, Fusion Reiki, Wagle Reiki, Angel Reiki, Tiger Reiki, Lavender Flame Reiki, 30 more types of Reiki, Magnified Healing, DLA, Akashic Records, Access Consciousness, Aura Brushing, Cord Removal, Hypnotherapy, Past Life Regression, EFT, Psychic Surgery, Angel and Tarot Card Reading, Runes, Tasseography, Violet Flame, Herbs and Oils, Candle Magick, Signature Analysis, Vastu, Numerology, Feng Shui, Bach Flower, I Ching, Fairy Ring, LOA, Diceology, Lithomancy, Hydromancy. She is also an Angel whisperer. She has also written a book “Lessons I learned from Reiki” which can be bought from Pothi.com.
She lives in India and can be contacted via Alohahappiness official page facebook.com/alohahappiness or Instagram handle @alohappinessbykayshetty. Her personal Pages are facebook.com/Sonieledanielhealingmiracle, and Instagram handle @sonieledanielhealingmiracle.


{ 30 comments… add one }
  • Shaza October 23, 2013, 8:44 am

    very interesting, thank. i have a question if it was not possible to acquire the exact shapes of the crystals will any shape work?

  • Sunetra October 23, 2013, 9:14 am

    Dear Shaza,

    I personally feel any shape should work as after all our intention matters!!

    Om Mani Padme Hum

  • linda October 23, 2013, 10:00 am

    if these two people have not found each other you cannot fix photos to the grid, will it still work if you leave one side without a photo until they have found each other, or have I mis-understood what you said about moving obstacles out of their way so they can find each other.

  • Sunetra October 23, 2013, 2:37 pm

    Dear Linda,

    You understood bang on!
    removing obstacles is, if there is anyone hindering ur reln or any situation which is straining ur reln, will fizzle out

  • Tamra October 23, 2013, 4:24 pm

    You mentioned that this works well so that obstacles will be moved so that they can find each other. Does this work for someone who does not know who is their soul mate? Such as helping them find them?

    • Sunetra October 23, 2013, 4:56 pm

      Personally I think it should! 🙂 no harm in trying right?

  • jay July 13, 2014, 6:19 pm

    what the **** did u right in this blog sati is a women? Its ours godess not any ordinory women. dont think that your bullshit reki is above our religion . ok

  • Sunetra July 13, 2014, 7:02 pm

    Dear Jay,

    Why do you read the article if you find it not worth it.

  • jo August 6, 2014, 12:46 pm

    Hi i dont have pyramid crystals..just some small different shape tumblestone rose quartz..will these work? Also id be doing this on myself to help find my soulmate..so if i dont know who on earth who he is i cannot provide a photo..so i just leave that empty and use a photo of myself..will this still work??

    • Sunetra August 6, 2014, 2:38 pm

      Hi yes it is possible. Intention is important.

  • harry September 2, 2014, 7:18 am


    Im a level 3 reiki practitioner. I have created a sati symbol and have added many other symbols like rota nen da symbol,unity symbol,koriki symbol,hossana symbol etc.
    Is it fine to add these symbols apart from saheki,chokri,dkm,hszsn?
    And 2nd thing,sumtimes i become very negative thinking will it work,dis dat.does this negative feeling can hamper the results?

  • René September 12, 2014, 3:47 am

    Hi. What are the letters (acronyms?) in each of the rectangles? I presume I just write these in? Thx! Namaste.

  • Cindy Shilton September 12, 2014, 7:23 am

    Pic in the middle for pictures. The other abbreviations are for the symbols known by Reiki Masters x

  • Shy October 4, 2014, 7:06 am

    After completing the reiki sati grid for 21 days, is it ok to keep the grid as it or do we need to dimantle the grid and re-energize the crystals.


    • Sunetra October 4, 2014, 3:55 pm

      We need to dismantle the grid and re energize again.

  • Shy October 4, 2014, 4:24 pm

    Oh is it. I did not dismantle it. Is it ok if I do it now. It’s been almost 2 weeks now.

  • abhishek December 20, 2014, 10:50 am

    hello sunetra mam. Your articles are too gud and very helpful. Can you please share you facebook id or email so that I remain in touch with you.. I have learnt reiki level 2 and want to learn more.

  • Becca February 28, 2015, 2:16 am

    I do not know who my soul mate is. Will it work if I put a picture of just me? Also could you be exact on which crystals to use. How long do you keep the grid?

    • Soniele March 1, 2015, 5:59 am

      Hi Becca,

      You can just put your photograph and keep the other one empty.
      Crystals like rose quartz can be used.
      Grid should be kept for 21 days

  • Preeti April 6, 2015, 3:25 pm

    Dear Sunetra,

    Nice article. I love reading articles from Annanya and you, have helped me a lot.
    I want to know if I can do it for me and my husband to strengthen our relationship. And where should I keep the grid? Should it be open or on my altar or I can place it in a box and keep it hidden?

    Om Mani Padme Hum

  • Dr Prakash (Grandmaster) April 30, 2015, 6:37 am

    A nice article. I would like to bring out the following –

    Firstly, Sati or SATI may refer to:

    Buddhism – awareness or skillful attentiveness
    Hinduism – Sati (goddess), Hindu goddess, Shiva’s first wife
    Sati (practice) – an ancient Indian tradition of the immolation of a widow on her husband’s funeral pyre.

    In this case it is more as an example of immortal love between two persons.

    Next – Reiki cannot be AND should not be given without consent of the persons involved. Generally in case of relationships issue, one of the person involved has no interest in making up or seeking Reiki.

    Finally, bringing two people CAN be done by working on their Auras… therefore if one partner is keen to make relationship and the other is not then BEFORE doing any Sati or different Grid it is important to work on the aura of the person seeking relationship, for a minimum period of one week. Thereafter ONLY if the aura has impact on the other persons attitude should the grid be used. If there is not appreciable change in the other persons aura then continue this for periods of seven days at a time before placing the grid.

    The Grid can be made with ANY shape of crystal; that should not be a limiting factor – the intent is the only important thing here and has to be placed in reiki box at the centre of grid.

    The exchange should be minimum and ONLY as per the capacity of giver since a person in broken relationship often does not have adequate means. Charging high figures is counter productive as it produces trauma and generates negative energy.

    Love and Light

    • Sunetra April 30, 2015, 3:32 pm

      Dear Dr. Prakash,

      I have only one line to say Reiki is a smart energy and if the relation has to work it will boost with Sati Grid else it will not. I knew people who had set it up for someone they loved, but those people got married to someone else. Reiki will work for everyone’s good.

  • FAUZIA October 9, 2015, 5:02 pm

    Hi Sunetra, I have tried this (although I admit, I did NOT give it reiki for the full 21 days) but missed a few days in between. Is this a big deal if I still kept the intention for the full period? I have now taken it apart as the 21 days have passed. Also, can I set it up again for the same people for another 21 days? This is for myself! I actually had a clear glass pyramid built to accommodate the grid, which also looks beautiful. Any tips on enhancing the whole experience? Thank you 🙂

  • Sneha December 4, 2015, 12:19 am


    I have been doing sati grid since jun 2015 for my daughter as her husband has been constantly asking for divorce. In sept, it was finalized that they both will have divorce. I am still wondering why sati grid didn’t work out in my daughters case.

    • Dr Prakash December 4, 2015, 1:44 am

      Dear Sneha
      More than grid intention helps.
      More than intention, the desire of the people helps.
      This gruff is more for those couples who desire a harmonious relationship but somehow are unable to do so. In case of those where any one of the partner is vehemently against the other, it doesn’t work. Which is why you find results vary.
      The initiation by Reiki master is just for this; the need to check the auras and decide if it is worth trying.
      Sometimes separation is better, which is what Reiki guided the situation to.
      Have faith in the decision and accept it with… You did try.
      This will open a new door and better and happier days.
      This is all I can predict for your daughter.
      God Bless

  • K - :) February 11, 2016, 9:26 pm

    Thank you Sunetra for your interesting article. With all due respect to you and your effort, I have some reservations for several things. Humans have free will. That allows us to choose our actions and thoughts. Also, Reiki is an intelligent energy. It goes where it needs. Which basically means, if it is not for the highest good of all, it will not happen. However, an intention of sending energy in anything at all, still creates an energetic link, which either propels us forward, or holds us back – in this life, or in any other lives (for people who believe in reincarnation).

    Now, “forever” is something to be considered very carefully. Human beings are not as developed in their consciousness so that they are able to say if two souls are made to be together “forever” (meaning in all future lives from now on). Humans are 3-4 or 5 dimensional, at the most. And to be able to know what is exactly the souls plan, someone needs to be 9 dimensional. Even aura checking will not give you that answer. Because human brain/psyche is not designed to be able to grasp such complex information. Being together in this life is another thing,and checking people’s auras will give us a lot of insight whether two people are compatible. That I understand. It will help existing couples remove unnecessary blocs, and maybe remove blocks towards attracting a partner. But being so bold as to put energy into being “forever” – in all lives after this one…. we will be playing God. Now, let me come back to the fact that reiki is intelligent energy. Yes, we can be playful and try things, no harm done. But being careful and extremely precise and detailed with intention, and Ethical and intending For the highest good is very important. Which basically means, if we know that something is not for the highest good, don’t set an intention. No use, right? if we are just trying to attract love, by all means, do so.

    Smiles 🙂

  • Inchara S February 12, 2016, 7:48 am


    we need to draw the symbol in a paper

  • Sinatra July 26, 2017, 9:04 am

    Hi! It’s 8 days since I created the grid.i am a level 2 reiki practioner.my friends who are reiki masters send the master symbol thru distant reiki.what is the validity/shelf life of the chart.does it show signs within 21 days or after ? Ty.godbless

  • neha January 16, 2018, 9:34 am

    hi mam.. the article is really good n useful.. i am level two practioner n want to use the grid the grid for myself.. can u please help and give some details on using it

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