Article by Tammy Hatherill, Reiki Master
Undoubtedly those of you reading this article have been through a friendship breakdown. Where circumstances have once close friends parting ways. Sometimes amicably and sometimes with tears and frustrations and lack of understanding.
Someone close to me has just ended a relationship with her best friend because she felt it was in her own best interest and also for the best interest of her once best friend.
“I just knew in my heart that I wasn’t the right person to be in Denise’s life. I was moving forward with my own interests and learning so many new things and meeting so many amazing people, and Denise seemed content and happy to stay where she was.”
Maree, my friend, was actively changing her lifestyle and learning deep love and deep acceptance and trusting the spiritual information coming through to her especially when performing Reiki self-healing and meditations. She was meeting the most amazing and insightful people and felt her life was taking a brand-new direction, one where she could really and truly blossom and become the person she is meant to be.
“I received information during a self-healing that it was time to cut ties with Denise. This is not to say there is anything wrong with Denise, as there is not. She is a caring and loving person; however, we are not compatible anymore. There were a few things over recent times where she let me down, breaking my confidences and laughing at something I deemed extremely heartfelt and deep, and I was deeply saddened at her inappropriate reaction, but overall, she is a good person. I just lost the connection with her, and feel she will be better off with another friend.”
Reiki played a major role in the cutting of ties and sending of love, light, and healing to both Denise, and also to Maree herself.
“After the information came through in the Reiki treatment, I also meditated on the information as it was a huge call to cut ties with a best-friend. I used some Reiki chakra cards and simply sat and asked for guidance. What came through is that a mutual friend of ours was going to help Denise through the next phase of her life and something would happen to end both relationships I had with them and to trust in that and allow it to happen.”
So for the past couple of months, Maree went about her life and friendship with Denise with the knowledge that she had sent Reiki into the future for when the ‘crunch’ would come, and that Reiki would be there for all parties involved.
“I was grateful for the Reiki waiting for me, as I ended the friendship with both Denise and the mutual friend of ours on the same day. It was exactly as had been shown to me. I was happy and content in my decision and feel both ladies will blossom and help each other to grow. I have other people now assisting me to spread my wings and learn new lessons. I felt no sadness or regret and I send both ladies so much love and light. I knew the Reiki I had sent months previously was embracing me and giving me the support as well as the other two. When I had sent the Reiki into the future, I sent it to everyone, so everyone could make this transition easy and effortlessly.”
So, with sharing Maree’s story of a friendship falling apart, I trust you can see how using Reiki to help and assist can ease the pain, and ease the transition between what was and what now is.
Reiki is such a glorious energy, it can even help with the tragedy of a friendship ending! However, the word tragedy in this circumstance is much too strong a word because the Reiki prevented super hurt and super resentments.
Reiki is amazing. Please use it on your relationships to ease any misunderstandings, hurts, and resentments.
With love, light, and harmony.
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Tammy Hatherill is the owner/operator of Tammy’s Tarot and Healing. She is a well known Tarot and and Reiki Master/Teacher, and shared her love of tarot for over 12 months with a regular radio segment on 104.1 Territory FM. Tammy is the author of two books: Trapped Behind Bars and The Diary of a Fallen Angel, and is a journalist for numerous organisation: Reiki Rays, Tiny Buddha, Personal Growth and Hypnotherapy Journal Australia. You can find her website at www.tammystarotandhealing.com
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