Article by Ananya Sen
I woke up this morning and did my regular meditation and was feeling calm. I then checked my emails and trust me, I lost my calm state of mind! A few of the clients who are taking healing from me, had sent me emails complaining about various things. It is not that they are not making progress in their lives, but they are still complaining about the way they are making progress!
They were really stuck in their lives, blocked when they had come to me, but now they are healing and still complaining! I am not saying that life will be fair or has been fair to us, but how long can we grumble about it?
The reason I am saying this, is that our thoughts and words are very powerful. The moment you say something, anything in fact, it goes out to the universe for processing. Thought travels faster than light! So, if you are looking for a job and you are constantly telling yourself or others, “I don’t have a job” or “I know I won’t get a job” etc, you have already decided not to have a job. The universe is intelligent, not emotional please understand. The universe picks up on the vibrations that your thoughts create.
Whatever it is that you don’t have in your life, it is natural that you will grumble about it. So what you can do is every time you say something negative about yourself or your life, immediately correct it by saying “Delete Don’t Process !” Trust me this works. If you forget to say this, at least do it every night before sleeping saying “whatever negative I said throughout my day for myself and others, delete don’t process.”
The other thing I want to explain to you is, complaining about others’ behaviour. You cannot say things like ‘he should have done this or she shouldn’t have done that.” These don’t make any sense! My wise Reiki teacher had once told me that life comprises of seven parts. One part out of seven is our free will, the other parts include destiny, divine timing, laws of nature, planetary alignments, soul contracts, other people’s free will etc.
Since you can control only one part of your life, don’t complain about the other parts. You are not in control. You can’t hand someone else their lines and expect them to follow through. However, if you wish for someone to act in a certain way, send healing to the situation or to their higher self. This does not mean they will act in the way you expect, but it will be in a mutually harmonious way. Stop complaining!
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Ananya Sen is a crystal healer gifted with claircognizant abilities. She lives in Bangalore, India, but she can offer distance crystal healing all around the world. Ananya also gives mantra diksha and offers free pendulum readings.
You can reach Ananya via her email address: email@example.com.