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“Reiki” Relationships

Article by Reiki Master Sunetra Dasgupta

If you like me are a self proclaimed Google Queen (or King!), who can almost find any information online for anything then you are no stranger to blogs, articles and subscriptions which read how Reiki heals relationships, how it brings estranged families together, but I have hardly seen anyone writing about the “Damaging” effects that Reiki has on some relationships.

Relationships are very important in everyone’s life, provided they are healthy; else it causes unnecessary emotional troubles and stress in one’s life. The “trouble” with Reiki is, it’s not only the Universal energy but also the Universal Truth. It brings out everything in open, ripping apart the illusion of falsely created images. When one starts practicing Reiki or starts giving healing to relationships, some difficult decisions need to be made by us. My Reiki Colleagues and I have had experience with some relations in which we were thick as thieves to start with, and after Reiki things begun to sour. These relations may be friends, families, children, colleagues and even spouse. There are some relations in which the dynamics cannot be changed but Reiki gives us a better attitude and perspective towards these relationships.


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Some relationships become better with Reiki, and some heal by separation, in which the separation may be temporary or permanent. The relationship which does not serve any purpose in your life may end abruptly or you may just become distant from those people. When one starts practicing Reiki the truth about all your relationships surface. What I have personally noticed is not all relations can be healed in a 21 days healing cycle!, it takes around 3 to 6 months for a relationship to heal for better or for good! It is necessary to be out of these negative and toxic relationships as our auras carry the trauma of these toxic relationships. Blockages in our aura affect our relationship with other people as our auras keep communicating with each other.

Those who are expecting to meet their soulmate and giving healing for the same, you have to give it at least 6 months to start showing results. For those who are not sure about the true nature of their existing partner, Reiki will bring it out. This holds true for all other relations as well.

As a Reiki practitioner we retain only the good relations in our life as Reiki ensures we stay at our highest vibrational best. People often question me if Reiki “spoils” relationships because almost with everyone some or the other relationship ends. It is simply because we have some unhealed karma with them and they come to teach us some important life lessons which will help us walking on our path.

I am breaking down the steps for relationship healing for everyone’s benefit.

1. Cover yourself with light and give a lot healing to yourself with the emotional healing symbol or if you are a Karuna Reiki Practitioner you can heal yourself with Harth (It is for harmonious relationships and also helps one attracting love, good for people who have suicidal tendencies).
2. Connect to the person you want your relationship to heal with, with the distance healing symbol and start sending energy to them with the intention “that the relation improve for the greatest good”. If past images crop up in front of you which have hurt you, draw a number of emotional healing symbols on the image. You may feel some kind of release happening.
3. Notice the changes your body and mind feels after the healing. You may sense the other person’s point of view changing in favour of you.
4. Close the healing with the power symbol and thanking the other person mentally for accepting the energy and also being there in your life.

This method of healing can be done without any symbols too! Those who do not use symbols can heal the relationship by visualizing both the parties in white light.

This healing is not only for romantic relationships. Please feel free to use it to heal any other relationship you are struggling with.

Sunetra Dasgupta

A lecturer by profession, teaching undergraduate students Mathematics, Statistics, Research Methodology and Business Communication, Sunetra Dasgupta is also Reiki Teacher & Healer. She strongly believes that Reiki came to her rescue in difficult phases of life, helping her to cope and transform. Sunetra is currently affiliated to Alohahappiness - an MNC specializing in various healing services, remedial products, Vaastu, Numerology, Astrology and Past Life Regression to name a few. At Alohahappiness, she is an active Guide, Healer and Teacher regularly taking up cases for healing and courses for teaching. She has channelled Gajanan Vinayak Reiki, and heals with and teaches Traditional (Usui) Reiki, Karmic Reiki, Karuna Reiki®, Soulmate Reiki, Fusion Reiki, Wagle Reiki, Angel Reiki, Tiger Reiki, Lavender Flame Reiki, 30 more types of Reiki, Magnified Healing, DLA, Akashic Records, Access Consciousness, Aura Brushing, Cord Removal, Hypnotherapy, Past Life Regression, EFT, Psychic Surgery, Angel and Tarot Card Reading, Runes, Tasseography, Violet Flame, Herbs and Oils, Candle Magick, Signature Analysis, Vastu, Numerology, Feng Shui, Bach Flower, I Ching, Fairy Ring, LOA, Diceology, Lithomancy, Hydromancy. She is also an Angel whisperer. She has also written a book “Lessons I learned from Reiki” which can be bought from Pothi.com.
She lives in India and can be contacted via Alohahappiness official page facebook.com/alohahappiness or Instagram handle @alohappinessbykayshetty. Her personal Pages are facebook.com/Sonieledanielhealingmiracle, and Instagram handle @sonieledanielhealingmiracle.

{ 13 comments… add one }
  • Ambreen June 28, 2014, 2:33 pm

    I really enjoy reading your articals about reiki. I was reading your article about relationship and reiki. Where you had shown the method how to give reiki if one is having problems with the other. My question is can I heal people in my life who are having problems with each other, and how to fix the relationship?

  • Bahar June 28, 2014, 5:02 pm

    You are great! Thank you for sharing your gift.

  • Meenakshi July 24, 2014, 9:51 am

    Thanks for writing this article and publishing it.
    I have seen this happen to me when I learnt the 1st level and was practicing it in the first few weeks.

    I do not want to disrespect any other school of healing, where we manifest situations and relationships, but I would definitely emphasize the fact that in pure manifestation, there is no divine intervention. And you might be able to manifest anything your heart’s desire, but that might back fire big time.

    Whereas In Reiki, we get ONLY what is good for us. Guess this is the beauty of Reiki. 🙂

    Lots of Love and Light

  • mari August 31, 2014, 1:48 pm

    Hola soy mexicana, y quiero decirlesque reiki cambio mi vida por completo. Mi energía, mís pensamientos y mis acciones.
    Estare agradecida por siempre

  • Esther August 31, 2014, 2:29 pm

    I love your articles, this one hit home. Been married for 15 years and I’m a Reiki Master, my spouse doesn’t understand Reiki, I love healing and feel like this is who I was meant to be. I told him that one day I would like to begin my own business and he said he would divorce me, there are trust issues and I admit part of that is my fault, I had a lot of trouble communicating with him prior to Reiki.

  • shekhar August 31, 2014, 2:55 pm

    what is meant by Angel whisperer..

  • maria September 29, 2014, 9:39 pm

    thank you for your gift ,I have a problem about my relationship with my husband ,can you help me?

  • Ashwita December 6, 2014, 5:36 am

    Very interesting perspective. These are things you know but tend to forget over time. Thanks for the reminder 🙂

  • nikki December 6, 2014, 8:51 pm

    Hi what do I need to do to bring romance back between me and my partner

  • sweety January 12, 2015, 1:24 pm

    There is too much of loneliness in my life. Since I do home based job. What should I say to reiki

  • nosheen February 20, 2015, 12:52 pm

    with light .. which light u talk about ???

  • Veenna V Negglur April 23, 2015, 4:37 pm

    I love to have lots of relatives and friends.I am very friendly, broad-minded, jovial, helpful and entertaining kind of person. But I am not exaggerating, over the years what I have found out is that i am not not liked by most of the people. I am either ignored or neglected or not noticed at all. I am mostly wronged too. Now except for my husband and son no one is there in my life.No friends, no relatives absolutely no social life at all, which I yearn so much for. Inspite of my best efforts, i invariably worry about my future relation with my daughter-in-law and her family. I am too lonely. I hv done all things sundry but to no avail, I am a Reiki Grandmaster too, but yet I am unable to solve my problems. Can you help me?

  • Vishal mani September 21, 2016, 6:53 pm

    Thanks for good guide

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